Yossi Feintuch: The double meaning of "Anochi"
Selfishness is a major wall between a person and God; when a person goes – especially when s/he would rather not — to a place where there is sadness in order to express sympathy, or when s/he goes to another place where there is joy in order to rejoice with them, one defies selfishness and gain more proximity to the presence of God.
